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54 - Chesterfield, Derbyshire, England

According to Myers Briggs I'm a rare ESFP. Extravert personality with great social skills. Kids left home. Time...

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54 - Bedford, Bedfordshire, England

I have been on my own for a couple of years since my partner passed away, not a fan of being single! I miss...

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silver5urfer

54 - Southend-on-Sea, Essex, England

Looking for the elusive connection on all levels, nothing less will do! A best friend who I think it hot! Happy...

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Mel1980

46 - Ealing, London, England

I am honest, direct, and sometimes funny. I’m kind and very loyal to the people I care about. I love animals...

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45 - Brighton, East Sussex, England

Im busy with kids, work, and keeping life running, but there’s always room for fun. I’m loyal, down to earth,...

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51 - Carmarthen, Carmarthenshire, Wales

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About UrbanSocial UK Dating Site

Welcome to UrbanSocial - one of the best online UK dating sites for sociable singles looking to spark up their search for love.

If you're looking to find like-minded singles to date, you've come to the right place. Since 2003, UrbanSocial has been helping single men and women find someone special through our online dating service.

Don't wait for love to find you. It's time to get active, and start connecting with genuine professional singles who you might otherwise never meet in real life. Our UK dating site helps all sorts of singles meet well-matched dates.

Whoever your perfect date is, we're sure we can help. But don't take our word for it. Sign up now for free, and take a look around.

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Discover up to 1000 matches with our intelligent two-way matching feature.
Find someone special with one of our many search options and add those you like to your Favourites.
When you're ready, contact members using an easy and private messaging interface.
See what you have in common with others at a glance.
You're in control - block members who do not meet your standards or report unsavoury members.

Ensuring Safe Dating Online

Looking after our members means ensuring we provide nothing but a safe online dating site experience.

All singles on our UK dating site can rest assured their safety and security is constantly well protected.

Only genuine singles are able to join our dating service thanks to a team of human moderators who manually verify all new dating profiles and photos that are submitted to our site. This means we are a dating site with real profiles.

Our members also have complete control over who they want to contact, and have the freedom to stop, block or report other dating members should they wish.

Our privacy policy and data guarantee means that members can relax in the knowledge that their personal information is kept private and secure at all times.

We also recommend our members keep in mind our online dating safety tips when messaging others and meeting up for first dates.

Ensuring Safe Dating
Getting Started Online

Make Your Dating Profile Stand Out

The first step to getting started online dating is to create a great online dating profile about yourself.

While it might be tempting to just write a sentence or two, with online dating, it really is a case of you get out what you put in.

With so many singles online, first impressions count, so it's worth taking the time to think about your online dating profile.

Your introduction should be interesting, honest, and approachable for the singles reading it.

Highlight things about you that can be conversation starters and help give potential partners something to write to you about in their first message.

For more helpful tips and advice, head over to our award-winning online dating blog.

Taking The Best Dating Profile Photo

A great dating profile needs to be matched with a top-notch dating profile picture.

Dating online isn't blind dating, so if you want to meet genuine singles, you'll need to look like one, which means having a dating profile picture.

The quality of your dating profile photo dramatically affects your online dating experience, so spend some time creating a good one. Here's some simple tips:

Some angles are far more flattering than others. Position the camera straight on or slightly higher than your face to find the best angle. Have a bright source of light pointing towards directly in front of your face.

Minimise background distractions by making your face the largest part of the photo, and keep anything behind you plain or tidy.

A smile is the most attractive thing you can wear and makes you appear welcoming.

Creating the Best Dating Profile Photo

Success Stories

David, 16 December 2025
Thank you. I've met the most wonderful woman. So you can find love in your sixties!
Rosemarie, 02 May 2025
Saw someone I liked on this site who had similar interests, when he saw I liked him he messaged me. Met him and absolutely hit it off and I feel like he is the one I have been looking and hoping for. Nearly 3 months on and going strong. Was initially just being inquisitive as wasn’t sure about joining at first but so glad I did and both our lives have changed now for the better. He is a lovely, kind hearted man and I feel so lucky to have met him.
Raine, 20 July 2025
A great match and my forever. Thank you for bringing happiness in to my life and helping me search for my soulmate.

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Feedback from members we've helped in the past.

Lyn, 28 April 2025
Thank you so much for the very personalised reply. That is really clear and I have now done that. So much better than other sites which are just awful in comparison - and their customer service is simply terrible! They just use standard paragraphs to reply to queries and I wouldn't put it past them to use AI for the replies are they are rubbish and never answer a direct question.
John, 05 August 2025
Thank you so much for reassuring me in this matter 👍
Viv, 20 May 2025
Thanks for prompt reply and putting my mind at ease.